Inescapable
A situation never imagined or perceived, which requires learning the rules from the scratch, a situation a person has no in-born talent to deal with, and is utterly defenseless to face. Where help fades, where books are either absent or preach every action possible under the sun, where instincts are found not very trustworthy, logic turns out to be the demon.
Love the eternal backstabber is too dangerous to try. The decision the person takes is often inky pinky ponky spur of the moment style. The hopes turn sine wave, with people hiding the troughs; their ego too big to permit them to accept that they can go negative. The people find them lucky, deluded by the outer perceived glow. They know not of the black hole inside, ready to engulf the very existence of the person’s being.
Every person however capable would one day face this music at least once in his/her lifetime.